Food Relationships

In my industry, the word diet is used on a daily basis more than several times a day. On a personal level, diet had always been a tricky subject for me to talk about. When I first started getting serious about my workouts, I thought that the only way to be successful in losing weight was by counting calories, calories in versus calories out. I was a believer in low fat food and diet food products. Sugar free products enabled me to still indulge in sweets and have something to pour over my pancakes without guilt(or so I thought). I didn't realize how many unnatural ingredients and sugar alcohols were in these products. I just thought, hey its a fiber one bar so it must be healthy. I didn't know any better and I honestly didn't understand the association between processed food and how the unnatural ingredients in them effect not just our weight, but our hormones, and our mood. I didn't understand why I could snack on these things that were healthy and diet friendly, but my body was not able to get lean. I worked out so much and I ate as healthy as I thought I could, but I just wasn't seeing the results I wanted in my body. On top of the fact, that my sugar cravings were at an all time high and I was always hungry. I thought the hunger was just from my workouts, but now I know they were from eating so many empty calories which weren't satiating me, and from boredom(which is something we will talk about in another blog post). In addition, I was depending on Protein powder and protein bars to get me through my workouts or to fuel me after a hard workout when I didn't have the time to sit down and eat a proper lunch. Some of my protein powders has ingredient lists that were so long they took up the whole back of the tub. Just FYI, every single one of those protein powders are no longer in my pantry and I only eat RX Bars or Larabars want something quick, since these bars have so few ingredients all of which are natural and unprocessed.

I didn't grow up eating healthy food. As a kid, my diet consisted of a lot of carbs, sugary drinks, cereals, sweets, soda, pizza, and on occassion fast food. My mom had a pretty busy schedule being a single mom with 3 daughters who were all in different schools in different parts of Long Island. We all had after school activities like band practice, twirling lessons and acting classes. Quick meals, snacks like chips and candy bars became the norm as we constantly needed to be somewhere on a schedule. On addition to that, my mom was a pretty picky eater, so there were certain things she just didn't cook, because she didn't enjoy them. And as we all know, kids learn their eating habits from their parents. We only eat what we are exposed to, so it is normal for us to develop palettes that are similar to our parents. 

I had a massive sweet tooth most of my life. Never really with candy but chocolate and ice cream, snack cakes and juice were my addictions. I didn't think there was anything wrong with these things because juice was healthy right? And sugary cereals are what all kids ate for breakfast. I mean, what kid didn't love a bowl of lucky charms with a glass of orange juice in the morning. I was super tiny and thin when I was young and I was that way up until high school, so again, I never thought much about my eating habits and how bad they were. In high school, as my body started to change, I became a little self conscious in my skin, and of course I decided to be more cautious with what I was eating. So when I bought snapple iced tea, I went for the diet version and I went for the Sun Chips instead of Doritos, because somehow they seemed to be the healthier choice. Guys, I'm not saying that my mom was at fault for my eating because honestly, nutrition is all about education. And if you don't know what is harmful, you won't know what to avoid. And I know many of my peers had similar eating habits growing up and maybe some have even continued those habits. But that is why I beleive I have made this leap of faith in my career. My mission, is to educate people about what they are putting into their body. So many of our bad eating habits stem from our childhood, and it's hard to break habits when this is all we know. Education is key when it comes to nutrition. The more you understand how food effects your body and your mood, the more prone you will be to make better food choices. 

As a 34 year old woman, who has spent most of her life having a very odd relationship with food, I think it is so important to really understand what we are putting into our bodies. Whole food, real food and food grown in nature is what we were meant to eat. If you can't recognize an ingredient in your food, you probably shouldn't be eating it. I know that this is still a very difficult thing for most of us to adjust to. Throwing out the food scale and not logging in our calories or points can seem really scary right? I mean, numbers comfort people or freak them out. And for all the people who count 

calories and macros, it can be a scary to give that up. Trust me, it took me a long time to get over that fear. It made me uncomfortable to eat blindly when it came to numbers. But once I started seeing my body change just eating real food, I felt so free. Finally, food didn't control my day. I controlled what I ate. And I was eating things that I loved to eat, without feeling guilty. I felt a comfort in my skin that I never felt in the past. And the way I eat now, is a lifestyle not a diet. I encourage my clients to view healthy eating as a lifestyle not just a quick diet. I find that this mindset shift, has left them feeling free and empowered with their food which leads to success in the long run. 

I will be posting more about this topic with some articles very soon. If you want to stay the most up to date on my posts and articles, sign up for my newsletter and you will receive the most update information on nutrition, whole foods and of course fitness. 
I would love to hear about you all and your food journeys. Feel free to leave your comments below. If any of you are seeking guidance with your nutrition and getting on the right path to wellness, please feel free to shoot me and email and I can guide you through the programs that I offer in this area.

Thanks for reading guys!!
In health and wellness,



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Fresh Veggies at Union Market. Such a Beautiful place to shop!!